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Thanks a lot suleka, sanjay and gazcha for all your replies. I really appreciate that. Your replies definitely started making me feel better.

gazcha: As you said “The trick is to connect with the girl first before revealing your weaknesses.” I totally agree with that. Based on some of my earlier experiences with girls without revealing it first, Vit never turned out as an issue at all.
But I guess marriage process is something different, You need to reveal your major weaknesses first which might become an issue in marriage. For example, people do mention in first place if they have any physical abnormality. But still I am thinking of giving it a shot of not revealing it in first place.

Coming to love marriage, even I believe that love marriages are best, but it is something that you can not wait all your life to happen. If it has to happen, it will happen. I can not wait all my life looking for love.

Also I guess life is difficult in US for desi singles after certain age. Now all my friends have got married one by one and I am left alone. I dont feel comfortable hanging out with them anymore.
At this point I badly need a companion. Whether its love marriage or arranged one.

Suleka, I am going to start working on making myself more confident now.

Sanjay, Like you said “I do not blame the unsuspecting girls or their parents. May be you would have done the same if you were in their position.” I agree with that. Even I dont blame anybody for that. With this condition we can not blame anybody for anything. I am sure I would have done the same thing if I were in their position.

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Hello Baldeesh,

Thanks for responding to my message.

Few days back, I went to see some Derm in Stanford and he told me there is only one NB-UVB machine and that is in Santa clara or San Jose somewhere, but that could be little far for me.. So I was checking if I could find some NB-UVB place closer to me..

Anyways where exactly is your Kaiser hospital?

I am not sure about insurance coverage since I have United healthcare PPO. Do you have any idea about that?

Thanks
Madhukar

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