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June 23, 2005 at 8:48 pm in reply to: Want to get married but his folks dont know: AND NOW THEY DO. #121398
oh my gawd juhi !!!!!!
but this is a reality……………some people are so ignorant, their minds so closed that they cant see, dont want to see the real picture at all
it saddens me so much that people should not use their god gifted brains a little more and be a little more rational
how myths, prejudices havoc livesi understand what you and your partner must be going through………..
be strong juhi, and you will find lots of support here as well
stand strong and support your partner as well
imagine it would be even worse for him………..being torn between two people he lovesgive the old lady sometime…………let the initial shock and the immdiate reaction cool down
meanwhile, since your partner is a doctor, he must be having some dermatologist friends, whom he can make her mom spaek to
tell her that one doctor is not the only word on it………..make her speak to other doctors who are not as prejudicedyou and your partner have to be just strong and be firm
his parents should eventually just realize that they are not going to get their way and they will relent
if they dont, in a reasonable period of time (i would say a few months), just go ahead and get married
they will surely accept laterboth of you………….be firm, thats the key to convincing them also !!!!!!!!!!!!
take care
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nice pic………would be nicer if we could see the whole of it
put the complete pictureHi Pooja,
Thinking about this situation, I can only say that it is mor of a decision he has to take than you.
HE has to decide if he wants to live with the current situatiopn, get married to the other girl…………….or he wants to risk breaking off that, take upon himself all the complications and then be with you.From your side, I think you should be sure about a few things, that this guy really loves you, and you also love him
and that you guys will be able to handle all the complications arising out of the situation if you two decide to be togetherpooja, also dont have look at his love for you or your love for him with any rosy coloured spectacle
and dont worry, even if it is not him, you will find someone else
dont hink that because you have vit, you will not find any other guyVan and Sanjay are much more mature and wise people on this board, who have gone through the REAL things in life
consider their advise carefullyHI Pooja,
I have been thinking over this situation, but I must say that have not been able to decide which is the best course of action to take
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not really feeling low because of vit but so many other things
i know it will pass away, but its bad while it lasts………..Hi Sanjay,
That was a very beautiful story you told about the girl with vit in your college……..
Must make all of realize that it is only as bad or good as we present it !!!!!!!!!!!!!Confidence booster for all
Rashmi
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I like your attitude.
Even I am like that – never consider myself one less, but yes, can be conceited at times !!!!!!!!!!Take care
Rashmiokay, jai and Saraswathi,
So both of you are trying to get me to Hyd !!!
Doesnt look like a bad prospect
but i have no reason to leave my present jobwhy dont you guys think of coming to bombay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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