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Van and Victor… hows things? Havnt heard from you’s in a bit…
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hiii Neesha,boy was i busy…. don`t ask.. had sister in law and her hubby come over.. ( from India )and it was endless outings… soooo hectic… so now here i am back again !
howz u..and whats happening..?? read the exciting news abt Anshuman getting married
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BTW, Aap kae mooh main , choclate, icecream, mithai, paedae, barfi, jeelabi, rasagulla, gulabjamun and all the sweets
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HI Victor,yummmmm yummmm yummmmm… u are a sweetie urself…. mmmmmmmm i do have a horrendous sweet tooth… and now with so much mithai i will become moti.. lol
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the fact that I created so much trouble for my parents – especially for my mom, she’s growing old, yet she always has and still tries so hard to treat me.
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U shd not think so…. parents can never ever consider… that kids are trouble, if they have viitligo.
As a parent myself, i sometimes i feel guilty that i may have passed on some defect in me onto her…. Your mom must be a lovely lady… and must be loving u a lot too.. and it breaks the parents heart to see their kids suffer in any way.[QUOTED]
As a kid I too know how upset I get when I see my parents upset because of me, I cant even give them happiness, Its like, I was not able to live up to their expectations or something
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hey victor…. u shd not feel so…. its not ur fault , nor ur parents. Its fate, destiny… thats why i say try and come to terms with it even if u are still seeking treatment. Being in a happy state of mind ur parents too will feel easier on their mind… ohhh god, sometimes words are not enuff to express.. thoughts and what iw ant to say… hope u understand.. its one of those senti topics…Swinzle is also waiitng for Victor errrr.. uncle`s pic !!!! ( ouchhhhh ) She knows most people I talk to by their names……
God bless..
Van
Happy G C to u too .. !hi anshuman…
I am glad u found jai and victor from this board.. and u guys seem to have had a great time.. proof of which we are awaiitng to see in the form of pics !!!!!
talk to ya soon…Van
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Van – You know what you were saying to Vishal/Victor about his parents worrying…well i also hate my vitiligo and im always feeling depressed about it.. However, i always try to hide this from my parents, my mum especially, as i know how much this is effecting her.
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Hi Neesha,I can understand how both and u your mom must be hiding ur worries from each other.. so it does not affect the other….but don`t u think letting her know and discussing things with her… even this website.. will bring u closer on the issue and u won`t be bottling up things so much ?
As u said to Victor u hate it and u cannot accept it.. but sharing with friends.. will make u feel better… even a pic.. just as u share ur words. The more u hide it… the more u will go on hiding it..and so on. I am not saying don`t camoflague it…. but u shd be open about it…. even sharing a pic with other vitties makes u squirm.. thats how it shd not be. As victor said face the fact. I was happy to read u have only segmental viitligo… so its not likely to spread..
