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If you do not have a VSI account, you can quickly create one here!Madhukar,
I saw your photo. You are nice looking, and vit spots would not be a problem for many women. So what’s the problem really?
Persistence is also necessary, you know. My husband asked me out 6 times before I said, “yes.” I would give him excuses that I had other obligations in order to avoid going out with him in the beginning. I did so because I wasn’t ready to date anyone at first and had my own insecurity issues. He finally out-smarted me and proposed a luncheon date that was hard for me to refuse without looking bad. We have been together since then.
Talk to many girls to figure what qualities you like about women. Then hone in on the ones who possess most of those qualities. Then, just be yourself. Who is Madhukar? If you don’t know, you’ d better find out soon.
Here is a suggestion if you don’t mind (it might sound crazy, off-the-wall, etc. but is beneficial). Stand before a mirror while fully unclothed and look at every inch of yourself. Be loving and proud of every inch because every inch of you is unique and belongs to know one else but you. Your uniqueness makes your existence in this world miraculous. You must love yourself, my friend, so that you can teach others how you should be loved.
Gazcha,
There might exist some percentage of money grubbing women who are interested primarily in a man’s status. This does not include most women, however. Most women want a husband who makes them feel good. If you’re with someone, and they make you feel horrible, especially about yourself, you will not like the person. There does exist a large enough percentage of men who have bought into the full beauty standard of Bollywood: even Bollywood actresses never look so perfect in everyday life. And these men’s attitude towards women is entirely based on superficial attributes, which is wrong and unfair to women. Most young men today want a young, fair beauty who never ages and stays permanently youthful. It’s not gonna happen. All people grow old eventually.
Ohh, I’m so happy to have my husband. He is truly the right match for me. Understandably, he does appreciate my physical appearance; however, my intelligence and ability to connect with him on so many levels is more highly valued by him.
IVguy, let your vit be a postive force in your life. As a woman, it forced me to develop other qualities than simply beauty. Remember, we attract people to us with similar motivations. If you pursue a girl primarily for her looks, you will likely get a girl who likes what is superficial about you as well(money, status, other). Remember, a marriage is supposed to LAST a lifetime, so you’d better find someone who has much in common with you and enjoys your company.
Love marriage, love marriage all the way!!!!! I totally agree with Sanjay. Mine is a love marriage although there was a little “arrangement” going on between the two families, anyway. But my husband and I initiated what eventually became a big mess with our families because we secretly eloped before getting approval. My husband’s mother was initially opposed to the idea that she did not choose me. After meeting me, she approved right away.
Another thing that helped is that my husband’s British cousin had recently had an arranged marriage that ended in divorce within 3 months!!!!! His wife came straight from Kolkata and couldn’t stand him at all.
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